What could be worse than to see the woman you love bedding another guy right in front of your eyes? This is the ultimate humiliation for any man – the dreaded “cuckold” state. Men in this situation can feel betrayed, hurt, angry and powerless all at once.
The term “make him cuckold” is used to refer to situations where a man’s partner is cheating on him by sleeping with someone else – usually another male, and while he watches in shock and disbelief. In essence, he is being made an unwitting spectator of his own betrayal.
This type of emotional trauma has been explored in literature since the 16th century – stretching from works such as Geoffrey Chaucer’s “The Miller’s Tale” to Shakepeare’s “Othello”. This topic still looms large today and reaches far and wide across numerous cultures affecting countless lives.
When it comes to modern day relationships, this kind of act happens way more often than most people would imagine or dare to admit. Whether it’s a full-blown make-him-cuckold situation or a ‘background’ affair (where one partner regularly cheats but their significant other doesn’t know), these events cause untold psychological damage and can break up even the strongest relationships.
The accepted moral judgement surrounding affairs also makes it all the more difficult for partners who “embrace” the idea of make him cuckold; feeling obligated by social convention not to even try and repair their broken relationship because they have already gone too far.
It’s unfortunate that so many individuals have found themselves in situations like this; living out scenarios that go against natural human instinct – but ultimately lead them on a rollercoaster ride filled with shame, despair and humiliation. Whatever state they find themselves in, know that there are always options for help available – professional counsellors or resources designed specifically for couples dealing with trust issues resulting from an affair exist everywhere… so don’t be afraid to reach out for support if needed!